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Isnin, 19 Disember 2016

Nasihat Kepada Ibu Bapa Dalam Mendidik Anak



Bagi mereka yang suka marah-marah pada anak sendiri kerana sayang dan untuk mendidik.

1. Kita adalah orang matang, anak kita masih tak matang, mengapa yang matang perlu marah pada yang tak matang?

2. Kita orang besar, mereka orang kecil, mengapakah orang yang besar perlu marah pada orang yang kecil?

3. Kita adalah orang yang berpengalaman, anak-anak tidak pernah lagi melihat dunia, mengapakah harus kita harapkan anak-anak kita faham dan selari dengan pandangan kita?

Pernahkah terfikir mengapa dua orang marah perlu berjerit antara satu sama lain walaupun duduk bersebelah?

Pernahkah terfikir mengapa dua orang yang saling menyayangi lebih suka membisik antara satu sama lain walaupun duduk berjauhan atau di telefon?

Apabila kita marah, dua hati adalah berjauhan, oleh itu, mereka memerlukan suara/nada yang kuat untuk berhubung. Masalahnya, makin dijerit, makin berjauhan.

Bagi mereka yang kita sayang, dua hati adalah dekat, jadi tidak perlu untuk menjerit-jerit, hanya perlu membisik sudah terasa dekat. Makin dibisik, makin terasa sayang.

Itulah keajaiban ciptaan Allah pada sistem badan manusia.

Maka, persoalannya, jika kita ingin mendidik anak-anak kita. Perlukah kita marah-marah padanya walaupun mereka berbuat silap?

Sekiranya menggunakan pendekatan marah-marah, tanya pula diri, adakah kita mahukan anak kita mendengar kata-kata dengan hati mereka berjauhan dengan kita?

Atau kita mendidik dengan berbisik, supaya mereka faham dengar dan hati mereka kekal dekat dengan kita?

Apabila kita sudah mula marah-marah pada anak, tanyalah diri sendiri adakah hati kita dan anak kita sudah berjauhan?

Hubungan ibubapa dengan anak-anak yang terbaik ialah anak-anak menganggap ibubapa sebagai sahabat karib dengan penuh penghormatan tanpa rasa segan silu untuk berbincang segala masalah dengan ibubapa.











Sumber: Tuan Ibrahim Tuan Man.

Creative Punishment Ideas For Your Kids

Increase Bedtime:

  • Sometimes, you can adjust your kid’s bedtime directly to the way they behave the day.
  • If your kid has been naughty and you want to punish them, bring up their bedtime by five to ten minutes or whatever you feel is correct.
  • The days they have been good, give them more playtime.

Make Them Serve Dinner:

  • If your kid does not make it to the dinner table on time, despite repeatedly reminding and calling, make them the server instead.
  • Make sure your kid has washed their hands before serving though and see to it that the food is not too hot that may cause an accident.

Power Of Practice:

  • If your kids have problems at school due to badly written homework or class work, make sure they get enough practice at home, instead of punishing or scolding them.
  • Get a few photocopies of the assignments and make them sit at home and copy it out repeatedly.
  • Also, make sure they take a little extra time to improve their handwriting.

Hold That Tongue:

  • If your kid uses a bad word or is rude, get him to hold his tongue, quite literally.
  • Ask them to take stick their tongue out and hold it in their fingers, for a few minutes.

Chore In Return:

  • For every time, your kid leaves the room in a mess or forgets to complete a responsibility, hand them a chore for the day.
  • Options could be drying the dishes, doing the dishes, setting the dinner table, watering the plants and anything age appropriate.

A No-Fight Zone:

  • If your kids seem to fight a lot, ask them to create a no-fight zone inside the house.
  • Let them cut out pictures of favorite things from old magazines and stick them around the house. The rule is that they will not be able to fight in front of the images.

Set A Time:

  • If your kids do not listen or, take too much time to finish something you have asked them to do, set a timer.
  • Instead of telling asking them to do it on the watch, set a timer and tell them that if it rings before they are finished, you will take off some or other privilege.

10. Creative Choices:

  • Ask your kids to write creative punishments on different slips of paper and put them in a jar.
  • Each time you need to punish, ask them to take out a chit and do whatever is written on it.
Use the punishment ideas here to discipline your kids in a way that will not humiliate them, but help them make better use of their time.
Moms, do tell us what you think of these ideas and if you have some tips or tricks, do share them here too.


Source: http://www.momjunction.com/


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